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The Longest Way Home

One Man's Quest for the Courage to Settle Down

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"A soulful and searching book. Vibrant and elegant...McCarthy's prose shines with intelligence and intimacy. One feels pulled along...the book gaining momentum and meaning page by page" (Cheryl Strayed, The New York Times Book Review).
With absorbing honesty and an irrepressible taste for adventure, award-winning travel writer and actor Andrew McCarthy takes us on a deeply personal journey played out amid some of the world's most evocative locales. Unable to commit to his fiancée of nearly four years—and with no clear understanding of what's holding him back—McCarthy finds himself at a crossroads, plagued by doubts that have clung to him for a lifetime. Though he ventures from the treacherous slopes of Mt. Kilimanjaro to an Amazonian riverboat and the dense Costa Rican rain forests, McCarthy's real journey is one of the spirit. Disarmingly likable, McCarthy isn't afraid to bare his soul on the page, and what emerges is an intimate memoir of self-discovery and an unforgettable love song to the woman who would be his wife.
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    • Publisher's Weekly

      June 25, 2012
      In this carefully modulated record of self-discovery, actor turned travel writer McCarthy finds in far-flung, solitary sojourns from Patagonia to Kilimanjaro a way finally to commit to marrying his longtime Irish girlfriend. Having stumbled into fame as a 19-year-old NYU student playing the “vulnerable and sensitive” male lead roles in films such as Pretty in Pink and St. Elmo’s Fire, McCarthy falls into drinking as a way of wrestling with his emotional ambivalence and self-reservations. Travel allows him the freedom of anonymity, forcing him “to rely on instinct and intuition” rather than vanity, and now sober in middle age, he finds new motivation in pursuing stories for National Geographic Travel. Tidily divided into trips he pursued around the world, and framed around amorphous plans for his marriage with D in Dublin after a four-year-engagement and raising their five-year-old daughter, this rather bland memoir tries to confront the author’s relentless need to shy and duck. Impressionistic moments such as venturing out onto the Perito Moreno Glacier in Patagonia, riding down the Amazon, mingling among other “escapees” in the gold-mining Osa Peninsula of Costa Rica, and riding the clamor of a family outing in Vienna help release, if reluctantly bit by bit, his solitariness. Remote and diffident, McCarthy confronts very real male fears of being stifled and restrained.

    • Library Journal

      September 15, 2012

      Though most recognizable as a member of the group of actors known in the 1980s as the Brat Pack, actor and travel journalist McCarthy (editor-at-large, National Geographic Traveler) shows off his writing chops in this memoir of his gradual resolution of the major conflicts in his life: to wander or to settle, to commit or to be free, to be lonely or to be sociable. As he struggles to commit to his fiancee of four years, he travels alone to exotic and remote locales (Mt. Kilimanjaro, Patagonia, lesser-known parts of Costa Rica and the Amazon) and, with his wife-to-be, to cities that epitomize civilization (New York, Vienna, and Dublin). His work as a travel writer gives him the opportunity to simultaneously wander the globe and return to his resolve to marry the woman he loves. VERDICT Combining the best aspects of Paul Theroux's misanthropy in books like Old Patagonian Express and Elizabeth Gilbert's emotions in Eat, Pray, Love, this book is hard to put down. Bound to be popular, this compelling and honest chronicle will not disappoint readers.--Olga B. Wise, Austin, TX

      Copyright 2012 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

    • Kirkus

      August 1, 2012
      Former 1980s heartthrob actor McCarthy embraces world travel to make sense of life after movie stardom. The author's debut is a linked series of introspective essays inspired by his extended trips to Patagonia, Spain, the Amazon, Costa Rica, Baltimore, Vienna, Kilimanjaro and Dublin. McCarthy, who writes for National Geographic Traveler, among other publications, is a fair writer with adequate descriptive powers at his disposal. However, much of the prose lacks wit and originality, and though he has traveled to some extraordinary places, what's lacking here are extraordinary experiences. McCarthy often writes about the therapeutic qualities associated with traveling solo and the psychological advantages of anonymity while visiting a strange, remote place. Whether he's walking alone in Spain, taking a group river cruise down the Amazon or slurping coffee in Vienna with his family, McCarthy's writing slips deep into the intensely personal territory of memory. But with so much inner searching, even the most exotic surroundings fade into an amorphous blur to accommodate the author's personal life. In fact, there's rarely a point where readers will feel that the author has connected to his surroundings in a significant way. Although driven by Paul Theroux's ideas about wisdom being best acquired by traveling alone, McCarthy's ruminations on the meaning of solitary experience in relation to his surroundings never quite penetrate the ordinary. A clunky mix of memoir and travelogue that only occasionally does justice to either form.

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    • Booklist

      September 15, 2012
      Who knew that McCarthy, a familiar face on the big screen (St. Elmo's Fire, Pretty in Pink) and the small (Law & Order, Monk), is also a noted travel writer! An editor at large for National Geographic Traveler and winner of several awards (including Travel Journalist of the Year), he contributes travel articles to numerous publications, and his work has appeared in the anthology The Best American Travel Writing. This is not some memoir written by an actor who fancies himself a world traveler. McCarthy really is a world travelerand a damned fine writer, too. The book features eight destinationsNew York, Patagonia, the Amazon, the Osa, Vienna, Baltimore, Kilimanjaro, and Dublinand, along the way, McCarthy explores himself, too, introducing us to a man whose love for life is matched only by his love for the woman he would eventually marry (and whose growing importance to McCarthy is a thread that runs throughout the book). To readers who think, Andrew McCarthy? Really? the answer is a resounding and emphatic yes. Really.(Reprinted with permission of Booklist, copyright 2012, American Library Association.)

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